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Sunday, September 4, 2011

Playa Hermosa




After we were properly oriented, we took a day trip to Jaco and Playa Hermosa.  This is what I was looking forward to!  It was everything I hoped for:  Crocodiles, Scarlet Macaws, Iguanas…. Black sand, churning waves, scattered coconuts... a slushie made with fresh pineapple, passion fruit and mango...


It all Fit...


We packed the Souza's van the night before we left. 
 Jammed tightly in the crates and carry ons

Loaded in the back of the Souza’s van
Piled high onto a rolling luggage cart
Onto the first and second planes, even though the luggage scanner was broken
Onto another huge luggage cart in the San Jose, Costa Rica airport
Through the scanners at Customs
Into another van, for a big tip,
Into our new living room.

I’m so glad we brought the legos, the phone, good pots, the electric skillet, my garlic press, favorite teas, canisters to keep out the ants, favorite pillows and blankets, clothes for school, umbrellas, school supplies, shoes, tech stuff, backpacks.  It was worth it!  Everything here is twice as expensive and difficult to shop for since we walk or take a taxi everywhere.  We had everything we needed to start living when we landed.
Thank you, Mom and Dad, for taking such good care of us and the Laymans during our final week.  Thanks to Rose, Bailey, Desi, Ken and Jesarah for helping us clean up the house.  Thanks to the Souzas for feeding us, packing us, and getting us to the airport.  That drive to San Francisco was a nail biter!  Thanks to the Foggs for greeting us in Costa Rica and getting us everything we needed.  Having food in the fridge for our first morning was lovely.   We are blessed.

Isaiah found a place to sleep while we moved the luggage into our new apartment.

A Teen Between


Samantha, Samantha, and Sabrina get pedicures
   Sabrina became a teenager in the air, high above the Carribean, between the U.S. and Costa Rica.  She had a party at the Tucker’s house before we left, a party at our house with the Laymans (who drove out from Ohio!!!) and Grandparents, and then enjoyed a nice meal on the plane.  The airline attendant announced her birthday and everyone clapped for her, although their joy seemed centered on safely landing at their destination.  When we walked out of the airport, our friend Eric Fogg was easy to spot because he was wearing a red balloon crown, intended for the birthday girl to wear (which she eventually did as we headed to the van – what a good sport!)  We also found our apartment in Costa Rica decorated with balloons, card, and a birthday greeting.  So many people made her special day memorable.

Turning 13 in the Air Between 2 Worlds

A Birthday Welcome when we walk into our new place.

Hello and Goodbye in a Blink

     My mom and dad, Jon and Marian Stevenson, came out to visit us at MTI and bid us farewell.  We visited the Flying W Ranch, The Air Force Academy, and Focus on the Family.  And they took the kids for a day at the park to give me and Mark some time together at Garden of the Gods.  They were a tremendous encouragement to us, especially since they know what it’s like to pack up and head out to the unknown.  Dad remembers leaving California to go to Guam when he was Sabrina’s age, and both of them worked together in Vieques, Puerto Rico where I was born.  I’m looking forward to finally learning my first language.

Waving after a successful summit to the top of the Flying W Ranch Mountain

Amazed at the architectural beauty of the Air Force Academy Chapel




Missionary Training for all of us


Missionary Training International in Palmer Lake, Colorado
Our first three weeks of classes felt like spiritual open heart surgery.  It was necessary, though, and bonded us with our friends as we walked through the valley of the shadow of death and then recovered together in green pastures. Our teachers forced us to count the cost by naming our losses, and not just recent ones.  “List every loss you’ve ever had.”  “Loss,” a word for the people and places we were about to leave behind, and a word for all the people and treasured things we’ve ever had to say goodbye to. 
“Paradox” was another word we were given to describe the dual feelings of grieving what's left behind and anticipating future opportunities.  It’s possible to feel both at the same time, and I felt relieved to know I wasn't the only one going through those tumultuous emotions. 

A session on Sabbath rest was one of my favorites.  I was reminded that it’s actually healthy and spiritually refreshing to invest time and energy in non-productive play.  Another green pasture was our worship time in the morning.  Thanks to all of you on the worship team!  After hours of prayer and meditation on God’s Word, we all felt spiritually armed to face the upcoming challenges of cross cultural living.
We spent another two weeks loosening up our tongues and warming up our brains to learn a second language.   We especially looked forward to times when our instructors shared personal stories of life on the field.
In reflection on our time at MTI, I was most amazed by the talented people we met.  They came from many different backgrounds - engineering, marine biology, music ministry, business, pediatrics, the army, education - and they were all ready to use their gifts on the mission field.  I was honored to be among them and inspired by their dedication and love. 

After Photo of Garage

The pile covered with a red sheet went to Goodwill.  The pile behind Mark's mom was packed up for Costa Rica.

Missionary Training Started Early

View of Grand Canyon - From top of the Flatbed Tow Truck
  
Missionary training started a few days early for our family!  

Title of Course: Grace under Fire
Course Length: the last 3 grueling days of our road trip to MTI in Colorado 
Objective: The missionary will prayerfully make good decisions under stress while maintaining unity among all group members and fostering a positive, optimistic attitude that rests in God’s sovereignty. 
Aside from a few problems like an elk snoozing where we wanted to set up our tent, the camp stove breaking, the screen tent flying apart in a gust of wind, the propane lantern catching on fire, and the boys’ tent zipper failing, we enjoyed a brief stop at the Grand Canyon.  We felt pretty confident that we could handle these minor issues and lump them together as one big trial that wasn’t too awful.  Josh had a great time flipping pancakes on an iron skillet over the fire pit! Who needs a silly camp stove? 
Our second trial was bigger.  The car’s transmission failed along the Grand Canyon rim.  We drove in 2nd gear to the nearest gas station and waited a few hours for a tow truck.  The nearest mechanic was 80 miles south in Flagstaff, Az.   We prayed and discussed our options, realizing that I might have to camp with the kids by myself on the rim while Mark rode back with the Ford and tow truck.  The several hours of waiting were tense, but we stuck together and God provided a solution we never even considered.
We all ended up going to Flagstaff together.  We sat, buckled in our seats, windows cracked, enjoying the views of the Painted Desert from atop a flatbed tow truck.  A feeling of utter helplessness ripped through me as I sat in the passenger’s seat of my Ford Expedition while it was pulled up onto the flatbed.  Mark commented later that the ride felt like the hand of God carrying us to a safe place.   As our SUV swayed in the wind, the cab of the truck out of view, I thought it seemed more like a helicopter ride.  The kids waved to everyone passing by, and I made several videos of Mark falling asleep at the wheel, recreating a scene from Knight and Day.  Mark was a good sport considering the situation.
In Flagstaff, we hopped out of the car, quickly grabbed enough gear and food for a night, and walked to the nearest hotel, leaving the Ford at the mechanic’s.  It was too windy to use the hotel grill or our camp stove, so I got creative: instant mashed potatoes in the coffee pot and sausage and green beans in the mike.   It sounds gross, but since I had the food, I didn’t even think about ordering take out.
The third trial of this impromptu training (ie God lovingly disciplining us through hardship) was the hardest, yet.  This time Mark and I struggled to push through the situation, fighting weariness.
After considering whether to trade the Ford, sell it, or rent a van, we prayerfully made the tough decision to spend mucho money on a car we only need for 6 more weeks.  The day looked promising when the mechanic loaned us a white Ford Windstar for free!  We drove 4 miles down Rt 66 to the nearest Target to pick up some needed supplies for an unexpected hotel stay over the weekend.   For those interested in the details, here they are:
8:30pm Target parking lot. The mechanic’s loaner van wouldn’t start.  It actually shook every time Mark turned the key in the ignition.
9:00 pm We picked up our Target bags, asked a few Target employees about local busses, and walked up and down the busy street looking for a bus stop. 
9:30pm We find out from nice person #6 that the busses stop running at 7pm on the weekends and we need to call a taxi. 
10:00pm  We sit outside a Carl’s Jr. waiting for a cab, and Isaiah falls asleep.  We create and play a city astronomer game and locate a happy star, three different clusters of 50 stars, a half sun, and a wealthy star.   
10:30 pm  We move inside the Carl’s Jr. and order fries.  Isaiah continues to sleep, not minding the new location.  The girls set up drums with a salt shaker, booth seat, and napkin holders, rocking to the 90’s metal music on the radio. 
11:00pm  Exhaustion sets in and we stare at each other.  Julia falls asleep.  Mark continues to call taxi numbers, but the Beer Fest in town seems to be keeping them too busy to care about a family of six that needs to go 4 miles down the road.   The hotel won’t send a shuttle.  They just gave us another taxi number.  All I could say was, “Should we start walking?”  And we would both agree that walking 4 miles in the dark, in the cold desert wind, along Rt 66, carrying Isaiah, while wearing flip flops, this late at night was crazy.


Our transmission blew out here, on the rim of the Grand Canyon
Above Photo: An Elk beat us to our campsite

11:30pm  Mark leaves the Carl’s Jr. to look for a gas station or tow truck business – anything!  He comes back, still on the phone.  I notice a man, hesitating to get into the car with his family because he’s watching Mark talk on the phone.  He looks like he might want to help.  I motion to Mark – ask that guy if he’ll give us a ride!  Mark was on the phone with a tow truck driver, but an actual person with a vehicle looked more promising at that point.  The man said he would drop off his family at their hotel and then come back for us.
11:45 pm.  After waiting some more, hoping the Carl’s Jr. wouldn’t close, we gladly piled into the back of the nice person from New Jersey’s car.  Thank you, sir!  I’m sorry we forgot your name, but we’ll never forget your rescue.
I’m not sure what grade we got, but we understand that this is all part of God’s life training to make us holier.  I hope we apply the lessons we learned about trusting God to work out everything for his glory and waiting for him to provide what we need, when we need it.



New Friends bring us pizza while we wait in Flagstaff, Az